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[sez]

Hi, this is my first post. Hubby has very recently been diagnosed with BPD and I'm very new to all this. What should I expect and how is the best way to handle everything? xx

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[ArleighBurke]

Hi and welcome!

I hope you find what you are looking for here. There are many members with years of wisdom.

Can you tell us some background: how long you and hubby have been together? Do you have kids? How is you relationship? Who was he diagnosed by and is he going to start therapy?

For anyone in a a BPD relationship, there are some good books around like "Stop walking on eggshells" and "the high conflict couple". I recommend reading them.