BROKEN AGAIN

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hi there,

I'm experiencing a situation that has played itself over and over.My wife and soon to be ex is leaving for reasons that I guess are now acceptable but I'm having a very hard time accepting. She turned 50 today ,we have a 16 year old son together. Ive done everything a guy can do to keep it together. A normal person would have run away along time ago with what is seasonal mood swings and dislike , distancing herself from me. i know she is not good for me. I allow  to be played with high emotions on care and love for her. She becomes a sack of ice... .so cold and distant

[ICD]

Hi there,

I'm experiencing a situation that has played itself over and over.My wife and soon to be ex is leaving for reasons that I guess are now acceptable but I'm having a very hard time accepting. She turned 50 today ,we have a 16 year old son together. Ive done everything a guy can do to keep it together. A normal person would have run away along time ago with what is seasonal mood swings and dislike , distancing herself from me. i know she is not good for me. I allow  to be played with high emotions on care and love for her. She becomes a sack of ice... .so cold and distant

[ICD]

I'm just having a hard time. It just seems that being rational does not work with a irrational person. Any advice in coping and repairing myself... .

[Lucky Jim]

Hey ICD, Welcome!  What makes you think that your W has BPD?  Fill us in, when you can.

LuckyJim

[Mutt]

Hi ICD,



I'm sorry to hear that. It helps to talk to people that can relate with you. Are you talking about several break-up make up cycles? What's going on?