trying to decide to stay or go

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Child of an alcoholic narcissist. Married a man with BPD traits. Have gone to counseling for years myself. He will not go. He gets better. He gets worse. He gets better. I get confused. I kept myself busy and away with my career for years. Now I'm home more and wondering if I should just leave but after 31 of marriage I have no doubt it would get ugly. Any similar stories out there?   

[looking up]

Child of an alcoholic narcissist. Married a man with BPD traits. Have gone to counseling for years myself. He will not go. He gets better. He gets worse. He gets better. I get confused. I kept myself busy and away with my career for years. Now I'm home more and wondering if I should just leave but after 31 of marriage I have no doubt it would get ugly. Any similar stories out there?   

[Lucky Jim]

Hey looking up, Welcome!  I like your moniker.  Whether to stay or go is a decision only you can make, though we can help you find the right path for you.  What would you like to see happen?  What are your gut feelings?  Let us know if you have any particular questions.

LuckyJim