Heart broken for my great grandchildren babies

[Gmadebbie]

My nephew has BPD-diagnosed.  I’m pretty sure my sister has it. I made the greatest mistake moving in with her. I didn’t know how far she progressed in her sickness. The person that scares me the most is my grandsons partner who is diagnosed with it. It is affecting my great grandson, who is 15 months old. There is now a newborn that is going to be harmed by this sickness too. It really really hurts to see this. And ITS NOT FAIR to the babies. My grandson is described as being on a leash. He hands over her phone every night so she can read it. The worst thing is she is relentless and won’t give up being verbally and mentally abusive until he explodes. The first time  ever he called my screaming to “get this bitch away from me” yesterday. It seems like an addiction (both addicted to weed)he can NEVER do enough. It’s more, more, more….I was there earlier watching him on egg shells trying to make Mother’s Day awesome for her and he apparently never can be perfect enough. And the worse abuse in the world is for the children being exposed to the abuse.
My grandsons partner is getting no help.
I’ve noticed with my nephew who goes to endless places for help that it’s always their fault it doesn’t work because he won’t do the work and has no self awareness.
Please pray for my great grandson babies.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Pook075]

Hello and welcome to the family- I will certainly pray for everyone involved.

I'm so sorry for the reality your grandson faces.  My only advice is to be there for him as an ear to listen, and avoid getting too far in the middle of anything.  He must choose what to do in that relationship.

And like you said, keep praying.  God answers prayers everyday.