I am always amazed at how the pwBPD can just cut you off so quickly and thoroughly. From moving her gear in in the early afternoon, six weeks back, then we went out for dinner with friends and because I defended myself against a two nonsense accusations that occurred between 5 pm and 9 pm, both in the car and we had two arguments as I did the JADE thing, ( silly me) mainly at how ridiculous the accusations were, upon arrival back at home, she had packed back up and gone by 11 pm. Back to hers. Where she was moving from. Said she didn’t feel safe. With me. The guy she has ‘ loved’ for 4.5 years.