What to do

[Ferguson22]

I met my now ex girlfriend while working in another state. I took a new job in another state and eventually she agreed to move here. After 6 months of living together we got in a big fight and she moved out. I really do love her, and I want her back, but she says she doesn't know if she can trust me. What do I do?

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[Ferguson22]

She had been gone for almost 2 months now. We have some sort of contact every day. I have always stood my ground in every argument and this one was a major argument over nothing. When she asked if we were gonna talk, I had had enough and just said no.

[Ferguson22]

We have had some awesome times together and we have been through a lot together. She moved here to be with me. When she first got her she had a mental snap and spent 10 days in the hospital. I don't think that she is in the right mental state. After reading about BPD, that is without a doubt what it is. I am not staying in this state for much longer and I would feel very guilty if I "left her here"

[Ferguson22]

And we've been together for about 3 and a half years.