BPD ex girlfriend searching contact with me after 2 months no contact what the heck?

[Holland24]

my ex girlfriend had BPD and she cheated on my with an ex of her and now i am for 2 months single en after 2 monts no contact i looked at my badoo profile and  saw a message  that me ex clicked on the heart button en she say now that se wanted me back what the heck is this typical borderline behavoir? a long time no contact and then they searching for you and want you back?

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[Tattered Heart]

This is very common behavior. It's called recycling. How did you respond? Are you wanting to work things out with her?

[Holland24]

Last monday we had meet eatchother en talks and the next dat tuesday we had sex and ahe want me back and At the same day she texted me that she had 50 euro voor my for my gasoline I want het also back but out parents dont know that we have contact and we Are a little bit scared that out parents donut acept It that we want want back in relation