Does NC work with BPD individual

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Date: 7-2017Minutes: 4:25
Borderline Personality Disorder - Jordan Peterson PhD

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This was posted yesterday... .


Date: 7-2017Minutes: 4:25
Borderline Personality Disorder - Jordan Peterson PhD

[xyz-Girl]

I know I should walk, and I guess I am a bit each day but sometimes it's 2 forward 1 back.

She had been diagnosed and she knows it but I still don't think she believes much of what happened in our relationship is related to the BPD yet... .

Yeah, that is common. My ex also says that is nothing related to BPD, that he is more fixed than he has ever being. See, only people like us, that really know how to love, would love people like them, without any judgement and actually wanting to give them love. Most of people would run from then, like who would deal with them? I know i wouldn't again! next BPD guy or girl i meet, just friends! You need to believe that this is all happening for a reason, you will find someone better you will see. Believe it and it will come in time. She is already in another relationship, the moment my BPDex tells me he is in another relationship, i will just move on and not look back. It just came to my mind that maybe he added that event on our calendar so i would see he is dating and move on. maybe that is the case, idk. i think i am doing that anyway. I cannot wait for longer, i am sure i have a lot to give and i'll find someone that will appreciate it. Above it all, they don't appreciate us.

Best of luck for you!

[tiki]

This is weird for me to read an attempt to get a BPD person back. And with manipulation. How do you manipulate them to come back to you. Doesn’t this seem more like a really bad place to be in? You’re probably not the first person to reach this point in asking this. I guess come to think of it. I think it’s probably a bad space to be in though tbh.

[Robbland]

This is weird for me to read an attempt to get a BPD person back. And with manipulation. How do you manipulate them to come back to you. Doesn’t this seem more like a really bad place to be in? You’re probably not the first person to reach this point in asking this. I guess come to think of it. I think it’s probably a bad space to be in though tbh.

I'm not attempting to get a BPD person back, I'm attempting to get my partner and friend back who has BPD. Subtle difference.
I love her and I'm not trying to manipulate her I'm just trying to do what I can to convince her to be with me, a bit like I did when we first met, I guess like we all do when we meet someone new.

She has  BPD which explains some of her behaviour and that's why I'm here because people on the board understand the unique behaviour and feelings related to this.
Breakups from BPD relationships are not like regular breakups in my opinion due to the nature of the condition which is why help and support here from people that actually understand how I feel makes all the difference.

[crushedagain]

This shouldn't be in the detaching area, it should be in the reversing a breakup area because that's what you're trying to do.

[Robbland]

This shouldn't be in the detaching area, it should be in the reversing a breakurp area because that's what you're trying to do.

I got a thread in there too.

I am trying to detach just struggling with it... .

I don't think I fit in a single box... .

[crushedagain]

I got a thread in there too.

I am trying to detach just struggling with it... .

I don't think I fit in a single box... .

I understand completely. I was just thinking that it may be a better fit over in that section is all. Sorry you're having a hard time.