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March 20, 2018, 09:45:51 AM »
WHETHER YOU DETACH OR NOT.
THE TRAUMA, THE REJECTION AND THE CRUEL BEHAVIOR STAYS WITH YOU.
AND FOR EVERY VICTIM OF THIS ONGOING NEVER ENDING NIGHTMARE, THERE ARE 100 PEOPLE WHO WILL JOIN THE HATERS.
THAT'S WHAT BULLIES DO.
THEY CLING TO THEIR MINION OF SUPPORTERS SO THEY CAN ALWAYS BE THE VICTIM.
YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE VICTIM.
RELENTLESS HATE SURROUNDS YOU/ME/US.
THERE IS NO WAY TO SURPASS IT - NOT FOR ME.
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Hi missymoo,
I'm so sorry that this is happening. I can feel the hurt in your post.
Would you give us some details about what you are going through?
What happened today?
We're listening.
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I am sorry Missymoo. I can relate. I try to not let it get to me and most times I am successful but somedays the pain gets through my thick skin too. Hugs to you! You are not alone.
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Missymoo,
What is going on today or what has happened recently to have you be so upset this morning?
It sounds like you are feeling bullied. Did someone say or do something to bully you lately?
All of us here have been tried by fire in some way or another, and so, whatever you have to tell us will be received with understanding. You are among peers.
If you don't mind my asking, what does "missymoo (no more)" mean?
We are here in the event that you'd like to talk further.
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Hi Missymoo
I just want to join the others in offering my support and letting you know that you are not alone, we are here for you.
I hope that you can share a bit more of what’s distressing you today x
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I'm sorry that you're going through a difficult day We're here to listen when you're ready. Hang in there.
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