Hello,
This is my first post on here. I am engaged (at least I believe I am) to someone with BPD. We have been together for almost a year. The first few months were amazing and filled with lots of passion. She also has addictions or co occurring disorders. She went to rehab for a few months but immediately relapsed. She moved in with me shortly after that and has continued the spiral down. I have done my fair share of things during our relationship to hurt trust and have been doing all that I can to restore that trust. However, I am still being accused constantly of lying and not telling the truth. This mornings example, I was being accused of being apart of an occult group and practicing dark magic. I felt this was out of left field. How can I get her to believe I am living authentically and telling the truth?
Im going through the same thing, and tried and tried to tell her i was telling the truth, she kept not believing me so I've given up and need to move on. My feelings being denied is no longer acceptable.
