two steps forward, not sure how many back

[isilme]

made it through the terrible end of last weekend things were perking up a little, then someone n a project with him that's he's done a lot of free work for sumps him because the guy had an easily bruised ego.  It seems like H find other pwBPD to allow to abuse him, and his black and white thinking can't figure out how to manage people without being totally rude or giving them everything.  He's hurt, I've been watching this project closely and don't think H has really done anything that would warrant how this guy is acting. 

So he's depressed, new health check upcoming, makes him antsy, need to see another doc same week and he's worried about that visit, I've got my own specialist trips coming finally to see why I am so sick January each year, and why I am still winded and tired easily, strange fever off and on with no apparent reason, and to see what the tiny thing in my lung actually is.  yay. 

And he wants to go car shopping, and I just want to go alone.  I can handle this alone.  I am scared how bad of a mess it will make him, and yay, he finally gave me tax files.

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