my Wife shows many traits of bpd

[Carpediemnow]

My wife has all the symptoms of bpd. She has never been diagnosed and refuses to get help. On a good day she will acknowledge. On a bad day I am crazy and a million other terrible things. She has left and is proceeding with a seperation agreement. She will change her opinion once the episode passes. I don’t know what to do. Tired of the roller coaster. But I love my wife!

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[Harri]

Hi.

It has been a couple of days, has anything changed?  How long do her episodes typically last?  Can you describe a typical good day vs. bad day? 

Sorry for all the questions.  Details help us get a better handle on your situation so we can support you.

Hope to hear from you soon.

[Ozzie101]

Welcome to the family Carpediemnow!

I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, but I just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Harri has asked some good questions and I hope you'll answer when you feel up to it!