Hi there GoodGuy11! Welcome to the family!
We're certainly glad you've found us here. This is a supportive community full of people with lots of experience and tools to share and our goal is to help each other along this sometimes confusing road.
Eggshells is an eye-opener, isn't it? It certainly was for me -- it's what led me here.
Going crazy? Been there.
Until I started learning about BPD I had no idea what was going on.
I hope when you feel like it you'll share a little more about your relationship. For instance, what areas cause the most conflict between the two of you? What BPD traits do you struggle with the most?
As I said, we have a lot of experience and tools that can help. We've seen some seemingly hopeless situations do a complete 180, so there is hope!
Keep posting, keep reading, and, again, welcome!