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Hello. I somewhat recently got out of a relationship with a BPD. I got pregnant very shortly after meeting him and didn’t realize the severity of his issues. My pregnancy was spent getting lied to and cheated on. Breaking up. Getting back together. And ultimately ending things when our child was a little over half a year.

I’ve been in therapy since the split. But I still find myself being drawn to the relationship. Craving that family unit. I am quite certain he will never change.

[Coparentwithabpd]

Hello. I somewhat recently got out of a relationship with a BPD. I got pregnant very shortly after meeting him and didn’t realize the severity of his issues. My pregnancy was spent getting lied to and cheated on. Breaking up. Getting back together. And ultimately ending things when our child was a little over half a year.

I’ve been in therapy since the split. But I still find myself being drawn to the relationship. Craving that family unit. I am quite certain he will never change.

[GaGrl]

Welcome to our group -- 

Many of our members have dealt with ended relationships with persons with a personality. We can r be you help and support.

Can you tell us more about your current situation? What concerns you the most right now? What is your current co-parenting relationship?

You are perceptive in that, unless he wants to change and improve, and sees the need to do so, he probably will never change. However, we can suggest some tools and techniques for you that can help make interactions better.