Snowglobe
Did you mistype when you typed "unlikely"?
Given the reported history I am aware of I think it is almost a certainty that he would react badly and violently to the plan presented.
I also want to commend you again for trying to separate your emotions and think through this situation.
Speaking for myself, I would certainly feel better if you would commit to discussing the history of threatened and actual violence in your home with your P. I realize this will likely be a hard conversation and I'm hoping there are ways we can support you here in moving forward with this conversation.
Best,
FF
Yes, typo Ff