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« Reply #30 on: May 13, 2020, 11:18:19 AM »

Snowglobe

Did you mistype when you typed "unlikely"? 

Given the reported history I am aware of I think it is almost a certainty that he would react badly and violently to the plan presented.

I also want to commend you again for trying to separate your emotions and think through this situation.

Speaking for myself, I would certainly feel better if you would commit to discussing the history of threatened and actual violence in your home with your P.  I realize this will likely be a hard conversation and I'm hoping there are ways we can support you here in moving forward with this conversation.

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