He really is going to do everything he can to disrupt me

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

The only basis he has to come closer to your house than what the PFA allows to collect his personal items is if he is accompanied by an officer or some recognized officer of the court.

Since you would prefer he not return, packing everything respectfully and keeping it offsite outside that range makes sense.  Be careful how that is done, listen to your lawyer, since you don't want to mess up on some unexpected rule or policy.  No longer can you dump everything to the curb and say to come get it before the trash collectors arrive.  I recall in some states (I think it was NYC) even if you packed it up into a storage facility you were still responsible for the fees until it was claimed and removed by the person.

[ForeverDad]

The only basis he has to come closer to your house than what the PFA allows to collect his personal items is if he is accompanied by an officer or some recognized officer of the court.

Since you would prefer he not return, packing everything respectfully and keeping it offsite outside that range makes sense.  Be careful how that is done, listen to your lawyer, since you don't want to mess up on some unexpected rule or policy.  No longer can you dump everything to the curb and say to come get it before the trash collectors arrive.  I recall in some states (I think it was NYC) even if you packed it up into a storage facility you were still responsible for the fees until it was claimed and removed by the person.

[I Am Redeemed]

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