Hi what actions (boundaries )to take when spouse is splitting, One simple question to him on “is he taking cold Tylenol now to sleep, use to be an addiction he said he quit, so I asked because I noticed bottle, he says I needed to sleep, I stated but you said you wouldn’t take it anymore (it’s been 3 years since he quit), he stomped off into bedroom, i with fear of further retribution slept apart. In the morning I get this message:
“ I guess while I’m working today you can pack up and head out - it’s hard to keep up with your stander - go see Daughter- I don’t need nobody - and I see you don’t need me
I understand I mess up all the Time and it’s not fair for you -
Do what you have to do to protect you and Son - I just the biggest
PLEASE READ up in the world - and will probably never be that man you long for
The hell with me”
I respond with SET step one am I wrong to have exited last night from potential scene. Trying not to be ransacked emotionally anymore.