Hi Im new

[UntiedShoes]

Hello.
New person here. I have a variety of interactions with bpd traits within my family.
My name is untied shoes because no matter how much I tie them they constantly become untied and people warn me about falling, yet I rarely fall. I'm crazy right?

When I did manage to keep my shoes tied - it was for work. I look forward to unraveling the borders of the lines that are needed to be sane after dealing with insane people. Yet, I'm sure after reading this you may presume I may be a tad nutty  

[Methuen]

Holy.  You sound like someone I know who loves to do gymnastics with words.  

Welcome.  Have you already found all the relationship tools on this site?  I was here a long time just engaging in thread conversations, before I finally came across the tools.  

I look forward to unraveling the borders of the lines that are needed to be sane after dealing with insane people.

Wishing you well in this journey.  Again, welcome.

[UntiedShoes]

Thanks for the welcome. I enjoy words very much but never became a writer due to grammar deficiencies I'm too lazy to work on. I read through the "FOG" website and found it accurate.

I have been working at understanding the issues in relation to my parents for about 10-15 years now. I am not "NC" but I also live about 10 hours away so its become a fairly amicable situation despite the horrific nature of my childhood.
I am interested in learning how others maneuver toxic interactions so figured I'd stop lurking and join. Thanks for the welcome!