My girlfriend of four months has BPD and a month ago she has started telling me that part of her disorder is that she gets tired of people and will sooner rather than later leave me, even after we had planned moving in together in a couple of months (both trying to get away from parents). Yet some time later when I brought up the moving plan again, she also started discussing about it and I do not know about her intentions now. I'm afraid she will leave me, her past relationships have been toxic and I am her first healthy partner, I want to support her in any way and want to be with her, because I truly care about her, but the thought of losing her is something I don't know how to handle especially if she has her disorder.
