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How to communicate after a contentious divorce... Following a contentious divorce and custody battle, there are often high emotion and tensions between the parents. Research shows that constant and chronic conflict between the parents negatively impacts the children. The children sense their parents anxiety in their voice, their body language and their parents behavior. Here are some suggestions from Dean Stacer on how to avoid conflict.
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« on: January 13, 2022, 08:56:34 PM »

I'm not a victim of someone who has BPD, I'm a survivor who is making the right changes to move forward with my life.

Who's with me?
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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2022, 03:23:05 PM »

I'm not a victim of someone who has BPD, I'm a survivor who is making the right changes to move forward with my life.

Who's with me?

I like the way you've framed it. As I'm sure you can relate, it's hard for me to take that approach when it feels like the legal system is stacked against me due to my gender.
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« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2022, 03:05:55 PM »

Well said! CoMo
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« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2022, 07:26:32 PM »

I agree 100%! We are survivors of abuse.
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