Just broke things off

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Had a two month relationship with suspected BPD female. She lovebombed me in the first week or two, but also said I was lovebombing her. Weren't exclusive, so didn't mind her disappearing on the weekend, but also we were spending every weekday together. Broke things off after 3 weeks because I thought she was a user and alcoholic. She charmed me back a week later.

Things settled down and felt like a real relationship, we weren't drinking on the weekdays but after a week she started picking all these weird fights from nothing. Also trying to constantly make me jealous and negging. Tried to throw me out of her house multiple times, apologized and  begged me to come back. Last time I didn't, so she activated back burner dudes and when I didn't break up with her, hid it from me. Finally broke things off about a week ago while she denied stuff, negotiated, and begged me. Still processing all this.

[Theghengis]

Had a two month relationship with suspected BPD female. She lovebombed me in the first week or two, but also said I was lovebombing her. Weren't exclusive, so didn't mind her disappearing on the weekend, but also we were spending every weekday together. Broke things off after 3 weeks because I thought she was a user and alcoholic. She charmed me back a week later.

Things settled down and felt like a real relationship, we weren't drinking on the weekdays but after a week she started picking all these weird fights from nothing. Also trying to constantly make me jealous and negging. Tried to throw me out of her house multiple times, apologized and  begged me to come back. Last time I didn't, so she activated back burner dudes and when I didn't break up with her, hid it from me. Finally broke things off about a week ago while she denied stuff, negotiated, and begged me. Still processing all this.