New here

[Lovesick]

Hello,
This is my first time here. I believe my spouse has BPD but can’t get them to seek treatment. I am close to ending the marriage because I’m in so much pain.

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[Go3737]

After 38 years I am right there with you... mine drinks and rages.

[kells76]

Hello Lovesick, welcome to the group. I hear the pain you're in. What's going on in your marriage isn't what you wanted for you or your spouse, I know that.

Just want to give you a heads up that I will move your post over to the "Bettering A Relationship" board -- not to "pressure" you to "decide what to do", more because that's where you'll get the most and best replies for when the pwBPD in your life is a spouse.

What would you say is the top conflict or top few issues in your marriage?

Hang in there. We'll be here to walk along side you.

kells76