BPD /NPD

[Sc aquatics]

Hi, have been married to a woman for 25 years ,together for 27.through those years she has been diagnosed with alot of things,the one that is the most obvious and damaging is BPD with high level of narcissism, and  CPTSD .she is refusing to get help and insist she doesn't have any issues, I do.but blames me for all her issues at the same time.Our marriage is pretty much over but I'm still stuck trying to help her out .
She has no money,no job no other family because she has pushed everyone away and burned those bridges.the Sherriffs are ove twice a month, at least but because she is real careful what she says ,She doesn't meet the criteria for 5150. What the heck am I supposed to do for my family?

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[Turkish]

That sounds brutal...

What precipitates the sheriff calls? If you're in the USA, most jurisdictions mandate an arrest. Do you have minor children?