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Author Topic: Is this an indirect charm attempt? Posting a song we used to hear a lot?  (Read 228 times)
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Married
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« on: July 16, 2023, 09:16:13 PM »

My BPD ex discarded me 8 months ago during pregnancy. She gave birth to our daughter 3 months ago and only allowed me to see her once (my lawyer is at it). Still, during the 8 months of breakup, she showed it all, hatret towars me, mixed signals, regret and then back to hatret and even psychosis (false police reports, lying at court)... you get it, I am split pitch black.

Since she showed mixed signals a while ago, I've kept communication lines open while being completely passive and only reacting. I only made attempts to reconcile when she showed regret. Of course, as soon as she realized she can get be back easily, she went back to hating me. In short, she never really experienced the breakup in those 8 months...

Until 40 days ago. She always blocked and unblocked me the entire year... but 40 days ago when she blocked me again I had enough and immedietly blocked her back. It's the first time I block her.

Trust told, and we both knew it from the months before, we always watched out closed online profiles or chat online stamps. and minor stalking... I know she is using webbrowser to check if I changed my Insta photos, and she knows I do the same... it's no secret.

Me blocking her and going with it since 40 days, 3 times as long as she usually blocked me on average, must be new to her...

She did place a link to a freshly set up Pinterest profile where she started to upload some everyday photos... but also some new selfies... but what got my attention is that she posted a song that I showed her when we came together and she liked the song too and since then we used to hear the song a lot, like every single week of an entire year. It's not exactly our love song, but it should have a ton of memories of our relationship attached to it.

Did she want me to see this public Pinterest profile? What about the song? Is this indirect charming, to make me unblock her?
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