Seek advice and comprehension

[GADarthVader1977]

I've started a relationship with a friend suffering BPD and other chronic disorders depression and anxiety.
We started as a friendship me giving great support due to her personal conditions experienced 8 months ago.
As I offered more support, the relationship transformed into a more close and romantic relationship, sincerely falling in love with her.

I've promised her that I will not leave her and be her "safe place" person as she usually calls me.

There are many instances to write about in this first post, but think the first I express here after being 8 months into the relationship, is to seek strength to face the commitments I've done and seek advice for oneself and be a strong support or pillar to my loved person with BPD.

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