You're still in contact. He's still texting because he can. You're still accepting texts into your inbox. No contact means you block the texts. If your service provider doesn't allow you to do this, then you've got to delete the text yourself before reading it, not afterward. You have to stop obsessing over him. No contact means you've made a decision to disallow any form of emotional blackmail to infect your mind. Reading these texts is still keeping you transfixed and in the game.
No contact includes every single form of contact: mail/email, phone, fax, facebook, IM, texts - EVERYTHING. Eventually the texts will stop. No contact does not mean counting the days between texts and worrying that they will stop. Anything that gives you reason to reengage is dangerous to your health. End the back and forth. No contact means you're done.
Some people consider the need for interaction with a Borderline partner as an addiction. If you are addicted, you've got to stop the drug dealer from knocking on your door and giving you your fix. Symbolically, blocking the door means blocking all electronic access- even reading the texts that he sends that give you what you want to hear.
