Plans

[Mind]

Stbexh is still in the house. It's very tense. He has taken our children places and has been secretive about it, leaving me to wonder where they are going and if they are coming home. He has taken our oldest over to his parents abruptly acting like she is going to sleep there. He is using the kids against me, it's obvious.

I saw for Easter he wrote on the calendar 4 pm at his parents. My family is at 12:30. Should the time spent at his parents be the same as mine? If so how do I word it? He is not approachable at all.

I saw during his school break he wrote in the calendar 'tickets with Grandma and Grandpa.' Again I have no information, time, where are they going, etc. His mom is exactly like him so I'm sure I'm dealing with a double case of BPD. How do I handle this?

I just retained my attorney so I'm not sure what to do with all this. He's very controlling and it's clear he's trying to get back at me. He's mean, nasty, spiteful. It's sickening.