Is there anyway you can switch boards, I find it hard being in several categories but only allowed to post in one.
I have a Spouse BPD that we are working on marriage, yet I also have family with BPD but cant post in that.
Why do we have to stay in one group, sometimes these problems are more then one issue.
Regarding your spouse, you can post on the Staying board to work through those issues, and for your family with BPD, the Ending a Relationship with a Parent/Relative board is where you can address your concerns regarding them.
Please contact a staff member if you need further assistance.