She said, "I would never find anyone to love ME the way that she loved me."

[Changingman]

God, I hope not!

Thought this was funny.

They all say this to get you to love them.

Best sex I've ever had, most amazing person etc.

They just want to hear you say these things.

[Octoberfest]

I am interpreting this as she said TO you, "You will never find anyone to love you like I loved you".  Is that correct?

And yeah, many pwBPD will say WHATEVER they must in order to get their way.  Truth is a very fluid concept, and the truth that exists in their minds is often a distorted and unrecognizable one.

[Changingman]

Yes, she said to me, I hope never to find such toxic 'love' again. Push/pull

[DragoN]

"You will never find anyone to love you like I loved you"

I hope to hell not. I would not like to find out what Hate looks like... .oh wait... I already know 

[eyvindr]

Ditto, ditto and ditto!

SO predictable, this illness.

[Aussie0zborn]

Yes I heard all that, too. In the devaluation she added, "You dont now what you're missing".

I knew very well what i would miss out on... .the rages, the deceit, the financial abuse, the violence, the smear campaigns, the flirting in front of me, the insults, the feeling of helplessness, the isolation and loneliness I constantly felt. And when I think of how much I enjoy not having all this in my life, it brings a smile of content to my face.

If only I did things her way she could live her fairytale life. But then, who wants to be an accessory/enhancement to a mentally ill person to live this fake life. I'd rather live mine which I now own. She had no idea.

[GreenMango]

If you look at that statement its probably true.

Not to many people love that way.  Which could be a blessing in disguise.