just saw him on a dating website after 1 wk NC

[Depression = 72% of members]

i am not in the least bit surprised. i am sure he had his account the whole time we were together. but still, it breaks my heart. one week ago today, he told me he loved me

[Aw511]

i am not in the least bit surprised. i am sure he had his account the whole time we were together. but still, it breaks my heart. one week ago today, he told me he loved me

[guitargrl]

Just want to say I am sorry for all that you are going through with him. 

[Aw511]

Thank you so much. it is good to have a place to vent. my friends all just think he's an ass and i should get over it but they just don't understand the way that people here do. :/

[nyfit1]

Caught my exgf on dating sites the entire 2 years we were together. She denied it until i printed her profile and showed her. Then lie after lie followed. Not worth going over the details of her delusions. I asked her, if u love me so much and say I'm the love of your life then how could u? She said she can't be alone and even though these guys can never compare to me, they will do. I said well then you're just using these guys. Suppose they fall in love with u? She said she didn't care, would get upset and then tell me I don't understand.

[Accepting]

Aw511 I don't have time to post much as I'm off to work but the exact thing happened with me.

It hurts heaps but at least there's no other amazing person filling the gap we left. ... .at least you know they can't find what they're looking for. I'd rather that than feeling like it was just that I wasn't enough. I think they'll always be looking.

Hang in there