I think I am done...

[Mike76]

I am pretty sure I am done. 

Its been a rough almost 6 years of marriage... .This forum has made the last 2 and a half easier, and I may not have made it this long if not for it.

I am burnt out and tired.  I am frustrated and angry.

I am disappointed in myself, and I have much guilt.  I know there our other sections on this site now better suited for me, and I will be migrating to those areas.

My wife does have a BPD but has not yet shared with me she has.   She just says "I have a diagnoses deal with it."

I worked with my T on a exit plan recently.   We have on more meeting with MC before I share with my wife that I can no longer continue. I just am not prepared to share with my wife at the next meeting.  I do not believe my BPD understands that I am this close to being finished, which scare me.  The idea of a separation or divorce has never came up with my wife.

I realize the staying board is no longer for me, but I wish you all the best.   I know and believe she is hope for some of you make it work.  For me it is just no longer an option.  It is effecting my health, my job, my work, and who I am.   I wish you all the best of luck, I know some of you will make you relationship work, I just can not make mine.   

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[HopefulDad]

I commend you on getting beyond the "paralysis of indecision".  That's a huge step for your own growth, making life-altering decisions and accepting the consequences and the fear of the unknown.  Best of luck to you going forward.

[toomanyeggshells]

All the best to you Mike76.