We are we sitting here on this forum and they are in lala land engaging in new relationships so soon and ones that are such a farse?
Sorry for venting... .
Happy Holidays!
This is exactly right. They are in La la land. It's how they live their life. They are just self soothing each other. What I realized is they do infatuation really really well but not real love. They throw the word around like they are saying have a good day. There is no way in hell it is love.
I also agree with Surnia. Seeing that can hurt but can be a reality check that is needed. I've have done similar and it just helped to solidify in my mind the whole thing is f'd up and never will be anything but. Just don't make a habit of it then it gets into ruminating territory and stunts your healing.
Plus, I'm not a real FB person but it seems odd to be throwing around all those personal messages on a public board. Smacks of desperation and wanting people to think they are happy. Possibly her even wanting you to see it. Don't fall for it.
Don't worry They are not happy!
Merry Christmas!