It's finally happening... I am truly starting to see things the right way.

[NoCRV]

It's finally happening... . I am truly starting to see things the right way.  

This relationship was not supposed to work out for me.  

I am one of the fortunate ones to walk away from this relationship with relatively no damage done.  I didn't marry her, I didn't have children with her, the relationship was only a year, and I now have my freedom to find a true happiness (Sorry to those of you that have endured more than I have.)  

I read the post about dreaming about the BPDex before going to bed which I knew was a bad idea and I did have a dream but it was positive.  I have had some dreams involving the ex but she hasn't been present in any of the recent ones.  I woke up thinking maybe she was excluded from the dreams because she has recycled her ex but pulling a positive away from the dreams I got to spend time with her family whom there was genuine love with and not have to deal with her.  

Thank you everyone for your postings and support.

[Skip]

Glad to hear that you are detaching - the lack of bad dreams is a sign that you are cleared the trauma of all of this.

I have been broken up with her for a little over three months and she has since recycled her ex.  My gut says she re-engages (probably influenced by my readings on here) but my head says there is no way she does.

Sounds like she never fully let go of the ex.  That's never a good thing.

I'd hope you to stay around and help with the newbies.  Helping others is a great way to help ourselves.

[NoCRV]

Thank You Skip.

It's funny how in such a short time thinking can change.  I am almost positive she doesn't re-engage me now.  Too much shame for going back to the ex and I have dropped off the face of the earth.  He was always in touch with her during our relationship and wanted back in.  I am prepared for the unexpected though.

[Mutt]

Thank You Skip.

It's funny how in such a short time thinking can change.  I am almost positive she doesn't re-engage me now.  Too much shame for going back to the ex and I have dropped off the face of the earth.  He was always in touch with her during our relationship and wanted back in.  I am prepared for the unexpected though.

Good for you NoCRV! 

We can't predict the future, take care of you.

[NoCRV]

Thank You Mutt!

I am.  Thanks for the support.