Friend broke NC for me

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I was at a friends last week and not only did she try to friend me exbfBPD on Facebook but she called him from her phone and after I went to sleep sent him many not so nice texts from my phone. I had told her earlier in the evening that he isn't one to mess with, he likes calling the police. Now I'm worried about a harassment order from him. Although he did not respond to the texts, he did talk to her on the phone until she got sexual then he hung up on her. I believe she called him back a couple of times and left messages I'm not sure what they said. She is no longer a friend, 6 weeks of NC and now it's like I'm starting over. I did send him an apology texts for the ones she sent, very simple 2line message. I am definitely painted black considering he made no response.

[giirl87]

I was at a friends last week and not only did she try to friend me exbfBPD on Facebook but she called him from her phone and after I went to sleep sent him many not so nice texts from my phone. I had told her earlier in the evening that he isn't one to mess with, he likes calling the police. Now I'm worried about a harassment order from him. Although he did not respond to the texts, he did talk to her on the phone until she got sexual then he hung up on her. I believe she called him back a couple of times and left messages I'm not sure what they said. She is no longer a friend, 6 weeks of NC and now it's like I'm starting over. I did send him an apology texts for the ones she sent, very simple 2line message. I am definitely painted black considering he made no response.

[Want2know]

You said he has filed previous harassment orders, what did they consist of and/or were based on?

Are you feeling solid about not getting back together with him?  I know for me, it took a while to let go of the urge to want to contact him, which is all a part of working through your feelings about ending your relationship.  That's a very common thing that you will see on this board.