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After a year of not seeing my exBDgf and speaking only about 3 times when she gets depressed and calls me so I have decided to finally let go of her. It truly consumes my every waking moment thinking about her and what I went through. I have been working so much on myself this past year, therapy up to 3 times a week at some points. I can now choose to remain in this place where are look at her social media and try to see who shes dating but it just makes me miserable to the point of not being able to live a happy healthy life. I have given it a year of being depressed and now it's time to force myself not to think about it just really try not to.
As hard as this is going to be and as sad it is for me to say this... .
Here's to letting go of not only the good and the bad but heres mainly to letting go of you... .
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Good for you it sometimes takes our hearts a while to learn what our minds already know. And a year of ruminating over this is long enough. Well done. It's been a long hard road for you detaching and now letting go will bring you much happiness. We'd love you to still hang around and offer valuable support and advice for the rest of us still battling through.
I wish you well.
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