uBPDexgf moving out of my house

[enlighten me]

When I left my exgf I moved out of my own house as I couldn't kick her and 3 children onto the streets.

She has been looking for somewhere for a few months and has finally found someone willing to take someone on benefits with 3 children and a small zoo.

I got an excited message from her on facebook saying great news ive found somewhere that will take us in the town I want to live.

I said that is great news.

She replied back saying that they were all very excited about it and she bet I was to.

I replied not really.

What Im curious about was her last comment about me being excited. Was she expecting me to be excited for her or excited that I was getting my house back which I didn't want so Im going to rent it out once Ive done some work on it.

I felt like saying Im not excited just glad to be rid of you but held my tongue.

Only a BPD can see the break up of a relationship and them moving on as something for their ex to be excited about.

[Recooperating]

I would take that comment as sarcasm. Something my exBPD was master in. Sarcasm is a good weapon for a BPD since when confronted with the behavioir they can twist and turn things like they didnt mean it like that. In my opinion, she was trying to lash out, trying to start something. But ofcourse they're not all the same... .