Why do they object to the truth?

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

My ex BPD could admit to minor faults but used to go crazy if I ever brought something up that was true. My most recent crime was to tell him I realised that he didn't and had never cared about him.  This seemed to really affect him and made him split me black.  Is that because he knows it's true and I've 'found him out'?

[merlin4926]

My ex BPD could admit to minor faults but used to go crazy if I ever brought something up that was true. My most recent crime was to tell him I realised that he didn't and had never cared about him.  This seemed to really affect him and made him split me black.  Is that because he knows it's true and I've 'found him out'?

[Algae]

This is surprisingly relatable.  And I suppose it's something to do with them making everything about them and seeing us as bad or painted black.  And when they see us as bad, they just wanna be right, like a child winning an argument.

One time my ex contradicted herself so much after she split from me that I didnt care anymore.  I made a 15 minute video that I recorded... rereading YEARS of conversations that I had with her through Texts since I never delete anything (i'm a digital hoarder).  It basically proved that everything she ever said or did was WRONG and messed up.

When she begged to come back to me, she agreed with everything my video was about... but after the idolization stage passed again, she told me the video was all lies.  Lol...

These people are just crazy.