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Indyan
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« on: December 10, 2014, 03:38:20 AM »
Hi 

Just to say that I GOT THE JOB!  Smiling (click to insert in post)

I had a job interview some weeks ago for a really good position and MAZELTOV!

So finally BPD/STPDx won't be able to blackmail me about money ANYMORE, WOooW

Some good news, at last.
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« Reply #1 on: December 10, 2014, 03:41:18 AM »
So happy for you !
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« Reply #2 on: December 10, 2014, 03:41:56 AM »
Indyan. I'm so happy for you! Well done. You've come so far

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« Reply #3 on: December 10, 2014, 03:48:20 AM »
Thanks to both.  

Life is weird. My personal life could hardly be worse and in the middle of this nightmare I get the job of my dreams for the best company in the field.

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« Reply #4 on: December 10, 2014, 04:07:59 AM »
Congratulations Indyan Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)  May this be the start of a happy new chapter for you 
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« Reply #5 on: December 10, 2014, 04:11:08 AM »
Quote from: Hadlee on December 10, 2014, 04:07:59 AM
Congratulations Indyan Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)  May this be the start of a happy new chapter for you 

Yes, new people, new faces, it's a challenge but at least it's about MY life.
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« Reply #6 on: December 10, 2014, 04:11:55 AM »
Quote from: Indyan on December 10, 2014, 03:48:20 AM
Thanks to both.  

Life is weird. My personal life could hardly be worse and in the middle of this nightmare I get the job of my dreams for the best company in the field.

Wow! Perhaps you might not have even applied if it were not for the turmoil in your life? I'm learning to be grateful for the silver linings in this BPD cloud too. There are some.
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« Reply #7 on: December 10, 2014, 04:29:59 AM »
Congratulations, Indyan!
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« Reply #8 on: December 10, 2014, 06:03:57 AM »
 Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #9 on: December 10, 2014, 07:26:00 AM »
Congratulation , it seems that their bad spirits go away with them and things starts to fall in place , the blessing ,the luck , I bet you are relived ! Good for you Indyan !
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« Reply #10 on: December 10, 2014, 10:01:57 AM »
Quote from: Moselle on December 10, 2014, 04:11:55 AM
Wow! Perhaps you might not have even applied if it were not for the turmoil in your life? I'm learning to be grateful for the silver linings in this BPD cloud too. There are some.

Totally, I think I would have postponed thinking "it's too good for me anyway".

I went there feeling on a "survival mode", and I gave everything with that "I have nothing to lose" feeling.

A friend who's been through hell too a couple of years ago told me she felt the same and that's how she went from being kicked out by her NPD bf of 20 years to finding a job, going to court and buying a house in 6 months... .

The BPD cloud clearly gives a kick to go and shelter from the hurricane coming. But I'm not sure I would call it a "silver lining" Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #11 on: December 10, 2014, 10:23:44 AM »
Congrats!
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« Reply #12 on: December 10, 2014, 12:12:17 PM »
I am happy for you. Well done! 
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« Reply #13 on: December 10, 2014, 12:28:28 PM »
Quote from: Indyan on December 10, 2014, 10:01:57 AM
finding a job, going to court and buying a house in 6 months... .

I bet she didn't have a new born baby as well  Smiling (click to insert in post)

You're doing so well Indyan. I hope you're proud of yourself.

Let us know when you start viewing houses ;-)
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« Reply #14 on: December 11, 2014, 01:57:27 AM »
Thanks to all 
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