holy BPD batman

[dumpsterdog]

I have been bitten punched kicked slapped had my clothes cut to shredd had to watch her cut herself bloody with scisors and have spent the night in jail bcause she falsely accused me of breaking into her house... .i live there by the way... and the address is on my license and we have a legally binding domestice partnethp... .,,and now she is threatning to have me evictrd because her dog died... .does this sound like BPD and what can i do to convince her i love her and she just needs to chill... .

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[formflier]

 



Are you in a safe place right now? 

Please start reading the lessons at the right of this page.  My guess is that you need to remove yourself from her presence much earlier so that you don't get slapped... .etc etc.

Big mindset... .trying to "make them" do anything is not a good plan.  Generally you want to not "give them a reaction" to outrageous things that they do.


Please come back and post more... .read lessons.  And above all... .please make sure you are in a safe place.