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flurfree

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« on: January 14, 2015, 07:31:51 AM »

It says I should post something because I joined.

I'm looking for help.

I am trying to... .get over loving someone with BPD who I broke up with 14 years ago.


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Perdita

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Relationship status: 5 years in
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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2015, 08:08:05 AM »

Welcome to the board, Flurfree. Read the other threads and join in. You can also tell us your story here. 14 Years is a long time. Glad you found us.


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« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2015, 08:23:35 AM »

What happened in your relationship? What has your contact been with this person the past 14 years?


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« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2015, 12:37:17 PM »

Hi flurfree,

I would like to join Perdita and Targeted and welcome you. I'm sorry to hear that. Tell us a little about your back-story.

Welcome to the family

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