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Hello Well things aren't getting better already. I don't even know how to describe what is happening because it makes no logical sense. I really need help. Does anyone know something I can call where I can talk to someone or even just wrote stuff here and talk to people ? I don't know. I need help
Because basically I've been dealing with her too long like this and I don't have anyone to talk to.
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I'm so sorry you're struggling. If you don't have family or friends to talk to, perhaps your local hospital or clinic can give you resources. There are many hotlines to call depending on what the issue is. I'm not sure what's happening, but feel free to vent here... .we're all in this together!
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Mtview: Yes, vent here. I'm having tablet issues, will log back in.
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OK. I'm back. There are resources out there. This is a good one. I'm going to check to see whether you already posted an intro thread. I will then PM you a link.
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Thank you both. Yes wow things are better right now since she completely changed her personally like night and day. I'm trying to keep everything positive. If anyone has numbers for me to call in the future when something like this happens again please PM me the numbers or sites or whatever.
Thank you so much
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Mtview
work your way through this link it provides methodically laid out explanations as to what is going on, how to avoid making it worse and generally deal with the drama
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