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GoldCoin
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« on: March 05, 2015, 10:48:21 AM »

My ex has BPD and broke up with me 7 months ago. She has never spoken to me and if I try

to speak to her she threatens to call the police. When I tried to speak to her about things she makes me out to be a horrible person.
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« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2015, 10:54:06 AM »

I am sorry that you are going through this.  Don't take her behavior personally.  This is standard operating procedure for pwBPD.
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« Reply #2 on: March 05, 2015, 11:04:21 AM »

7 months is a while; how long were you together?
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« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2015, 11:17:40 AM »

Hi GoldCoin,

Welcome

I'm sorry to hear that. I'd like to join fromheeltoheal and Tim300 and welcome you.

if I try to speak to her she threatens to call the police.

My ex threatened to call the police often when she left with another person, she felt guilt and shame for her actions and I was the horrible person.

Is there another person?

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