what he has is never enough.
Hey spottydog,
So true. I used to say "Never Enough" was my BPDxW's motto. Sorry to hear what you are going through. I was previously married to a pwBPD for 16 years and can relate to your situation. Due to the inner turmoil of a pwBPD, it is "never enough" to quell their emotions, so they are forever looking for some new thing to assuage their discomfort. It's a moving target. I though that, at some point, we would reach a plateau where things were basically OK, but never got there. Moments of peace were fleeting. I suggest that you pay attention to yourself and what works for you. Try to listen to your gut feelings and keep good boundaries, in order to figure out the right path for yourself.
LuckyJim