A silly question what month did your Ex BPD break up with you or left you ?

[bschooled]

July

[elessar]

January, May, July, August, September, November, December

[hopealways]

BPD tend to breakup around holidays too: there is too much fear of engulfment to spend such close intimate days with us.

[butterfly15]

BPD tend to breakup around holidays too: there is too much fear of engulfment to spend such close intimate days with us.

I noticed this pattern as well early on. Even during our honeymoon phase.

[Little oak]

Met in Jan,got cute Valentine card in Feb,moved in with her in April,gave up my home... .broke Up June,July,August,October,November,December,then finally january

[balletomane]

He broke up with me officially on 1 January 2014, after about two or three months of me living in uncertainty and tiptoeing on eggshells. What a New Year that was. :'( I was out of the country at the time. The recycle began on the day I got back (in March) and we continued as a pseudo-couple that none of his friends were allowed to know about until 15th April 2015, when he told me he'd got together with his flatmate.

[Climbmountains91]

Funny how I've noticed in the last two years we end getting back together in winter find and its always March we've broke it off. This winter it hasn't happened I was waiting for it aswell but it must finally be "it" now.