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Lonely_Astro
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As part of moving on and to heal, we often tell others and ourselves to do something good for ourselves. With that in mind, what did you do for
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I meditated at a nice lake, I met a nice friend of mine we laughed and went to some of our favorite stores : ) Not a bad day.
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Quote from: hopealways on December 10, 2015, 11:00:26 PM
I meditated at a nice lake, I met a nice friend of mine we laughed and went to some of our favorite stores : ) Not a bad day.
That certainly isn't a bad day, at all!
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I went to work. A job in which I love and am thankful for. I went to the therapist to help me through my current situation. I donated money to a local non profit. I studied. I contemplated. I took my dog for a walk. I hurt. I thought of great times I had with the love of my life. I received a bag of items from my exuBPDgf (on another post). I drank a couple beers and ate a good meal. Finalized my plans for Christmas. And am now writing on a forum that has tough to me so much. Cheers.
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As silly as it sounds, I stood up for myself. When someone crossed a boundary, I was tempted to let it but I didn't. While I was doing it, I knew I was changing my own patterns and keeping my values intact. It felt good.
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Worked a job that I love. Went to therapy after and was very honest and open during my session. Then went to the gym and sweat my butt off with a good workout.
Great thread, Astro.
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