What happened after you?

[Moselle]

During mediation for divorce, she packed up the house, the car, the kids and moved 1200km away (while I was away on business). She arrived met a married man at church within 2 weeks, started dating him. He divorced his pregnant wife to be with mine. He moved in with her and my kids 2 months ago.

I've been NC (except for email) or 9 months. And they somehow coopted the children into keeping it secret. I found out this last weekend because someone told me that they have announced their engagement to get married. ... .. But we are still married and in court every other month.

Whew its a mess

Probably the new guy doesn't even know she is still married... .

Oh he knows. He' a 20 year ( very ex) friend of mine. He's helping her fight, paying for lawyers etc. And being an ass about taking my kids.