Why, my emotionally unavailable mother and her emotionally unavailable robotic cat of course

But now that I am no spring chicken myself and have free will, I'd rather look at my own contribution to all this, hopefully approaching myself with compassion, respect and understanding without blaming myself but taking responsibility - blame is a language my mother has ingrained in me. Each time I fall for that, that's a slip, too - and yes, I do it:))
Thank you for this inspirational post!