Insights from my T

[JerryRG]

Oh gosh she's champ of the world, she even told her new bf I raped her when she overdosed in my apartment. 2 months later we were engaged, she pushed that on me. Yes all women want to marry the man who raped them... .

I would be rapest # 9

Her husband forced her

He was abusive

Her former bfs were abusive

So many men have harmed her

Hmmm

Just sick

[drummerboy5]

Oh gosh she's champ of the world, she even told her new bf I raped her when she overdosed in my apartment. 2 months later we were engaged, she pushed that on me. Yes all women want to marry the man who raped them... .

I would be rapest # 9

Her husband forced her

He was abusive

Her former bfs were abusive

So many men have harmed her

Hmmm

Just sick

Always playing the victim to pull some other person  into feeling sorry for them! Smdh all lies to get the next victim!

[sweet tooth]

Oh gosh she's champ of the world, she even told her new bf I raped her when she overdosed in my apartment. 2 months later we were engaged, she pushed that on me. Yes all women want to marry the man who raped them... .

I would be rapest # 9

Her husband forced her

He was abusive

Her former bfs were abusive

So many men have harmed her

Hmmm

Just sick

Yo, mine said she tried to get her ex-husband to participate in family outings/holidays "for the sake of the daughter." Mind you, this was after he physically abused her so much that she ended up in the hospital. After he "kidnapped" the kid. After she realized that he's a "sociopath."

Like you said, why re-engage with an abusive person? Here's what I think really happened: She had second thoughts about leaving him because she's so damn wishy-washy. She tried to engage in a relationship recycle. He either didn't want to reconcile (because he realized what she is) or did and it went to hell.

[sweet tooth]

And everywhere she went she had problems and played the victim:

-At home her dad was into "tough love."

-At work she scapegoated one co-worker and accused her of doing shady stuff.

-Her marriage therapist with the ex-husband did something shady with billing.

-The ex husband was abusive and her ex-boyfriend was bi-polar and only wanted her for sex/treated her like an object.

-Her friend was abandoning her.

-Her other friend was being insensitive to her with her behavior by withholding communication (something she frequently did with me).

There's one common denominator here: HER

I can only imagine what she's saying about me... .