Thank you stbx BPD wife for helping me detach

[Wize]

BPD wife contacted my attorney today and threatened to have me charged with child abuse and spousal abuse.  She also accused me of various other crimes.  The accusations are a little scary(and false) but dang has this helped me detach and understand that this person is dangerous and will never be a part of my life again.  Thanks wifey poo for the kick in the butt.

[drained1996]

How BPD of her... .

[Wize]

My lawyer actually represented my wife's last husband, so she's pretty keen on her shenanigans.  I did however remind my attorney today that my wife is dangerous, not to be underestimated and not to be trusted ever. 

Here's some more classic BPD behavior; My wife and I were in talks together and had agreed to not hire lawyers and work out the settlement agreement between the two of us.  So my wife presented her demands and when I came back and attempted to compromise with her she refused any further discussions.  Now she's in the middle of a nasty divorce when all she had to do was compromise just a little bit.  For her it's win or lose, black or white.  Giving even an inch to me would mean total defeat for her.  Can you say "irrational?"