The good news is I'm able to bounce back from the disappointment quite quickly these days.
But it's become pretty much unquestionable that I simply cannot be in contact with her whatsoever.
This saddens me a great deal but the effect it has on me is not acceptable. Some of it is my fault. I try to be as self aware as possible, but the bad memories will always come back, and her lack of remorse or any kind of apology make it unbearable.
Yes, it's a tough choice Inferno, a conflict, and eventually we accept we need to do what's best for us, as sad as that is, but good for you! And your ability to bounce back will get even quicker with time, as you detach and heal.
Why you do that to yourself ? Time will heal you and you will forget her, she is a demon
No, actually she's a human being with a personality disorder amunt. It's natural to assign negative labels and malicious intent to those who have hurt us, and anger is a stage of detaching, the good news is that passes, and when it does our perception of our ex and their intent changes. It's freeing when that happens, and it's helpful to check in and see where we are in the process yes?
